On a typical morning, most of us rise from our beds and shuffle into the bathroom.\u00a0It\u2019s our first stop of the day.\u00a0Invariably, we\u2019ll spend at least a few minutes\u00a0glaring at ourselves\u00a0in the mirror. It\u2019s not a pretty sight, given what bed does to our hair and what minimal clothing can do to highlight our various body bulges and skin imperfections. Add to that some puffy eyes, a nick from shaving and a little toothpaste dribbling out the side of the mouth \u2014 well,\u00a0it\u2019s enough to make you look and feel like you just escaped from some kind of home for the deranged.<\/p>\n

Things can quickly improve, however, when you shower, comb through that hair, slap on deodorant and put on appropriate clothing and maybe some makeup.\u00a0That is, of course, until you grab your phone and open a social media app like Facebook or Snapchat. There you notice all the smiling, perfectly airbrushed faces that confront you every day. Try as you might, no amount of man or woman sculpting\u00a0will make you look like\u00a0a\u00a0Sports Illustrated<\/em>\u00a0swimsuit model or\u00a0produce\u00a0abs like that dude in the underwear ad that pops up in your feed.<\/p>\n

You think about posting a selfie (who doesn\u2019t these days?),\u00a0but you\u2019re worried that you\u2019ll have to present the world with your regular face, which is no match for the beautiful people online or even your friend\u2019s smiling pics from Aruba.<\/p>\n

Not to worry \u2014 there\u2019s an app for that! With a photo filter like Facetune or the editing features of Snapchat, you can do a little tweaking. Erase that mole, nip and tuck that spare tire, get a little creative around the eyes and\u00a0voila!<\/em>\u00a0You have just put your best selfie self out into the world.<\/p>\n

All is well\u00a0\u2026\u00a0until you look in\u00a0the mirror again. Then\u00a0the disconnect between your real self and your virtual self begins to sink in.<\/p>\n

In the age of the selfie, medical professionals have identified a new phenomenon called \u201cbody dysmorphic disorder,\u201d or Snapchat disorder, to put it more colloquially. As\u00a0The Journal of the American Medical Association\u00a0<\/em>describes it: \u201cThe pervasiveness of these filtered images can take a toll on one\u2019s self-esteem, make one feel inadequate for not looking a certain way in the real world, and may even act as a trigger for body dysmorphic disorder (BDD).\u201d<\/p>\n

Some people become so enamored with their virtual selves that they\u00a0seek help,\u00a0not from a psychologist but from a plastic\u00a0surgeon who can help them look more like their altered selfies.<\/em>\u00a0According to the American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, the number of patients seeking this kind of selfie-altering surgery increased by 13 percent\u00a0between 2016 and 2017.<\/p>\n

We live in a culture where getting real about ourselves is often a challenge. Altering our bodies to fit a vision of perfection can be damaging, but what happens when we do the same thing to our souls? If it\u2019s possible to have a dysmorphic conflict between the real and virtual selves we present to the world, it follows that the ways in which we think and behave can have the same disconnect.<\/p>\n

We might sculpt our personalities and social postures to appeal to others and make us seem like more than we are, rather than being humble and realistic about our flaws and our human needs. When we have this kind of soul dysmorphia, it becomes easier to see others as inferior to our inflated and airbrushed selves.<\/p>\n

Jesus, however, had a tendency to drop into people\u2019s lives, cut through the airbrushed veneer and hold up a mirror to expose the true self. He did it not from a position of superiority (even though he was God in the flesh) but from the position of one who, despite his fully human and fully divine nature, was humble and always projected his authentic self.<\/p>\n

He was such a contrast to the other religious leaders of his day, who were all about keeping up appearances. At a Sabbath banquet in the home of one such leader, Jesus addressed the problem of soul dysmorphia and challenged the people around the table to get real about who they were and who God wanted them to be.<\/p>\n

Jesus noticed a lot of jockeying for position at the table as different people vied for the place of honor (v. 7). In response, he told a parable about a wedding banquet which, on the surface, seems to be a kind of Emily Post-style instruction on etiquette but, in reality, is much more.<\/p>\n

That Jesus talked\u00a0about a \u201cwedding banquet\u201d may indicate a larger agenda here. In different places in the Scriptures, the wedding banquet sometimes serves as a symbol for the coming kingdom of God, as it does here in Luke (Matthew 22:1-14;\u00a0Revelation 19:6-9). Jesus seemed\u00a0to be warning his fellow dinner guests that their striving for a\u00a0place of honor at God\u2019s table was a projection of their airbrushed image of themselves.<\/p>\n

There are always more \u201cdistinguished\u201d guests who have been invited, and you don\u2019t want the embarrassment of being bumped to the\u00a0other end of the table (vv.\u00a08-9). Instead, the person who is real and honest with himself or herself will choose the lowest place and let the host set the agenda for who sits where (v. 10). It\u2019s the host, in this case God, who determines our status,\u00a0for it is God who sees the real person behind the altered public veneer. \u201cFor all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and all who humble themselves will be exalted\u201d (v. 11).<\/p>\n

The second parable Jesus tells is directed at the host and,\u00a0if we connect the two parables, Jesus seems to be defining who the more \u201cdistinguished\u201d guests are who should have prominent places\u00a0at the table. \u201cWhen you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors,\u201d says Jesus (v. 12). To do so was expected as part of a social transaction \u2014 you invite them and they have to invite you.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s the same kind of social contract we expect to execute in the selfie world \u2014 you click \u201clike\u201d\u00a0on\u00a0someone else\u2019s fake portrait or news about themselves and you expect them to like your altered life as well. But Jesus urges the host, as he urges us, to instead elevate those who cannot reciprocate and\u00a0to\u00a0engage with those to whom our dysmorphic self-images don\u2019t matter. It\u2019s in relationship to the poor, the crippled, the lame\u00a0and the blind that our real self-image comes into focus. We learn that while we may not be in dire economic or physical circumstances,\u00a0we too are poor, crippled, lame\u00a0and blinded by self-interest and self-indulgence.<\/p>\n

Our smartphone cameras have a toggle icon. Tap it and it switches from selfie view to world view. The image you see is either of yourself,\u00a0or\u00a0that which is beyond yourself.<\/p>\n

Jesus wants us to toggle our lens so that what we see is everything beyond ourselves.
\nWhen we turn from staring at ourselves to serving others we begin to get a good sense that God gives \u201clikes\u201d\u00a0to those who are humble, honest\u00a0and authentic about themselves and in their relationships to others. \u201cYou will be blessed\u201d in inviting them, says Jesus, \u201cbecause they cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous\u201d (v. 14).<\/p>\n

Many people suffering from Snapchat dysmorphia focus their whole lives on impressing their friends to the detriment of their own bodies and souls. Jesus reminds us that the most impressive people in God\u2019s kingdom are those who take the humble position, who turn the focus away from self to others, and whose sole purpose is a soul and a life that is pleasing to God. It\u2019s not about presenting a pious image. It\u2019s caring about turning the spotlight on the image of God in others and in ourselves.<\/p>\n

What makes for beautiful in the kingdom of God is humility, service\u00a0and love for others. No surgery required.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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