There are some people you just don’t say “No” to. People of power and influence; people whose very voice carries the weight of authority imbued with a tone that bespeaks consequences and retribution; people who have the power to bend you to their will; people who are an immutable force of nature, and who can bring you to your knees with just a withering look, reducing you to a whimpering fool.
But enough about your mother-in-law.
Great leaders usually have people around them who have the courage to say “No,” because the great ones know that it’s not a good policy to be surrounded by sycophants. But what if you were working for the late Steve Jobs? He thought that being tough was the only way to keep Apple from suffering what he called a “bozo explosion,” meaning that if he tolerated mediocre people, “they would hire others like themselves, and soon there would be a company filled with employees who weren’t very good.” If Jobs asked you for a favor, could you say “No”?
How about other people of influence and power? Go back a couple of decades to when Ted Turner and Rupert Murdoch were churning up the waters of telecommunications and other forms of media. You might not remember Turner, but from 1970-2000, he was big stuff.
Sometimes called “the Mouth of the South,” Turner was frequently controversial. But he was also an entrepreneur, television producer, media proprietor and philanthropist. He founded the Cable News Network (CNN) and donated a $1 billion gift to support the United Nations. He once owned more land in the United States than any other private individual. He founded the Goodwill Games. He maintains the world’s largest bison herd on his Montana ranch. When Murdoch’s sailing vessel once rammed Turner’s in a yacht race, Turner (also known as Captain Outrageous) challenged him to a fist fight. (It never happened.)
Turner’s mantra was the same one I was taught back in my Army ROTC days: “Lead, follow, or get out the hell of the way.” Say what you want, but he was, and probably still is, a hard person to say “No” to.
These examples explain why it’s astonishing to read in today’s Lesson from Acts that the apostle Peter had the temerity, the chutzpah, the courage to say “No” to God. And he did it not once, but three times!
To be fair, Peter didn’t resist God in a conscious state; he was deep in REM sleep, and it was in a dream that he said “No” to God three times. In the vision, it goes down this way:
While in Joppa, Peter was praying and slipped into a “trance [and] saw a vision.” A ginormous tablecloth came floating and twirling down from heaven, and before him were some entrees prepared for his consumption, things like “four-footed animals, beasts of prey, reptiles, and birds of the air” (v. 6). He then heard a “voice,” and we have no reason to assume it was not a divine voice. He was told to “get up … kill and eat.”
But Peter offered his first objection: “By no means, Lord; for nothing profane or unclean has ever entered my mouth.” This happened three times.
We can assume that he was mystified by what he’d seen in his vision. After all, what he saw and was told to do went against his upbringing and education in Sabbath school, against everything he was as an observant Jew, and against the teaching of the rabbis and counsel of family members. Were he to act on what he’d seen in this vision, his ancestors would be rolling in their tombs. It was unthinkable that Peter would eat this stuff and defile himself in this way. He was a Jew. So no lobster tail, crabcakes, shrimp cocktail, or pork chops for Peter.
It wasn’t until later, when he was in a conscious state, that the meaning of this vision came into focus. The process began when three Gentiles, men from the north, arrived and invited him to go to a house in Caesarea.
You can imagine the scene. Some well-dressed men arrive at 31 Falafel Street, jump out of a very fine chariot and “invite” Peter to get in. Their boss wants a word.
“Who’s your boss?” Peter asks.
“Cornelius.”
“Who’s Cornelius?”
“An officer in the army of Imperial Rome. Enough with the questions!” (See Acts 10.)
Peter is worried, of course, but then decides, “Okay, who am I to resist these guys?” He gets into the chariot.
They arrive in Caesarea. Peter meets his host there. And he gets the surprise of his life. Cornelius explains that an angel told him that Peter would give him “a message by which [he] and [his] entire household will be saved” (v. 14).
This is when it began to dawn on Peter (whose ministry had been and would always be primarily to the Jewish community) that God was doing something incredibly new. He began to understand that God had blown away the old categories, paradigms that no longer applied and stale structures that no longer served the purposes of God.
So, naturally, he said, “Who was I that I could hinder God?” (v. 17).
Have we ever said “No” to God? Are we still saying “No” to God?
Perhaps we have a problem with saying “Yes” to God because we’re used to adding a qualifier. “Yes” is a simple, monosyllabic word, but our complex human nature wants to respond with two words: “Yes, but …”
We get cases of “Yes, but …” all the time in normal life:
Fortunately, Peter did not come down with a case of “Yes, but ….” He understood that it was best not to hinder God. He was sharing the gospel with Cornelius, the Roman soldier, and as events began to unfold, he realized that God was with them. The “Holy Spirit fell upon them just as it had” fallen on the original apostles in the upper room on the day of Pentecost (v. 15). Peter recalled what Jesus had said to them about this. And then he reasoned that if Cornelius and his family received the same “gift” of the Spirit as he and the other apostles had received, “Who was I that I could hinder God?”
About what should we not hinder God?
It could be that God wants us to remember that God is a God of new things. Gracie Allen of the old comedy duo, Burns and Allen, put it this way: “Don’t put a period where God has placed a comma.”
There’s a lot of chatter these days about who is clean and who is unclean, about who is right and who is wrong, about right choices and wrong choices. This story about Peter changing his mind can teach us a lot, especially that it is okay to change one’s mind, opinion or point of view.
Today’s lesson has a curious observation near the end. Peter finishes explaining to the leaders of the nascent Christian community in Jerusalem how and why the good news has been delivered to the Gentiles. Immediately after that he utters the words, “Who was I that I could hinder God?” The text goes on to say that “When they heard these things, they fell silent” (v. 18, ESV).
This is precisely the opposite of what is going on today. We’re many things, but one of them is that we’re not silent. We are too busy shouting, condemning, and being unloving and unkind than thoughtfully wondering if there might be more going on here than we realize.
We will antagonize, stigmatize, and ostracize, but we will not apologize, harmonize or even socialize with those who may be leading us into new territory.
These old saints, however, were silent. Imagine that! Some translations say that they stopped arguing … but then began to clap! They broke into applause, saying, “Okay then, God has given the good news to the Gentiles …” Remember this: Until your knees finally hit the floor, you’re just playing at life, and on some level you’re scared because you know you’re just playing. The moment of surrender is not when life is over. It’s when life begins.
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